By the time you reach high school, you'll probably have heard at least once that public speaking is something you'll have to deal with in the real world. And you're probably not going to be very happy with me when I tell you that whoever said that to you was right.Did you know that, according to teenoutreach.com, being the center of attention and speaking in front of an audience are the top two social fears in teens? I'm sure you've seen or heard horror stories of speeches gone wrong; but even if you're generally more frozen than an Otterpop up on stage, you can become that amazing speaker that the entire class envies. All you need is a little bit of patience and some advice from the good old Internet.There are two defining factors when it comes to public speaking: confidence and content. Learning to master them both is the key to setting your speech apart from the rest (in a good way, of course).Content1. Find a topic. Already have one preassigned? Good, you're already ahead of the game. Don't have any idea where to start? Try a web site like http://www.classtopic.com/persuasive for inspiration. Make sure it's something you can speak passionately about; this will make the process indefinitely less grueling to write about.
2. Consider your audience. Who will you be speaking for? Delivering a speech about saving the environment to the CEO of a recycling company should sound completely different than in a situation where you would be trying to persuade a class of fourth graders.
3. Research, research, research. Why? If you know what you're talking about, you're audience will notice (which is a good way to gain their trust). Also, being knowledgeable about your topic can inspire confidence, which is always a plus. And last but not least, researching your topic well can create a failsafe backup just incase you blank out. That way, you'll still be able to talk about your topic, even if it's not the way you planned it out.
4. Pick and choose evidence. So you've hit the library, and now you've got sixteen reasons for why genetically modified foods should be banned (Yikes!). To avoid boring your audience, combine the similar points (For example, "stripped of nutrients" and "a higher fat content" can be smashed into a simple, "it's unhealthy"), and then narrow it down to the strongest three.
5. Create a thesis. A thesis is composed of the topic, your stance, and the evidence, all jam packed into one sentence. In it's simplest form, a thesis will look like this:
The Honda CRV is the best vehicle on the road because of it's terrific rollover rating, practical size, and affordable financing options.
6. Brainstorm. Once you've got the facts and a thesis, organize them (along with your opinions, of course) on paper under six categories:
Intro: Think of a good opener (details at #7), and write it down along with your thesis.
First Point: Take your strongest piece of evidence and lay it down, along with at least two reasons on why it connects to your stance. Repeat this process for the next two paragraphs using your other two points.
Rebuttal: Depending on the assignment, you may or may not choose to go along with this step. A good rebuttal doesn't just describe the opposing viewpoint's stance, but also counters each statement to persuade even further why your own stance is the only option.
Conclusion: I highly suggest finding an alternative to the words "in conclusion". A good speech stands out, and that phrase is a horrible way to leave your audience thinking so. Try something less cliche. In addition, try your best not to make the conclusion a "retelling" paragraph. You're a big kid now, and need to find ways to keep your listeners engaged up until the very end. That being said, try leaving some food for thought that will leave your audience remembering your words. Just don't bring up any new points.
7. The opener. Have you ever listened to a speech, and after the first twenty seconds started day dreaming? To avoid that happening during your own speech, make sure that you have a captivating opener. Shocking statistics, quotes, or a brief story are classic ways to get an audience's attention from the start. Be creative, and as a rule of thumb, never give away the purpose of the speech in the first sentence.
8. Actually write the damn thing. It's the easiest part, in my opinion. If you've drafted well and organized your thoughts, converting your notes into sentences should be a piece of cake. Just make sure to keep the golden rules in mind:
a. Avoid using "I think" and "in opinion". We know it is; it's your speech!
b. Choose words that fit the occasion and stimulate the audience.
c. Use transitions, they'll make your speech flow much more smoothly.
Confidence
Although solid content is crucial, even the some of the best written speeches can sound like trash if it's not delivered right. All good speakers have confidence. The ones that don't, fake it. Either way your audience will believe that you know what you're talking about.
- Smile! (If it's appropriate for the occasion, of course.) Smiling gives the audience a sense that you're relaxed, and helps them to relax, too. Just the same, if you act anxious, your audience will feel it.
- Stand up straight with your shoulders back.
- Don't fidget or put your hands in your pocket.
- If the situation allows it, casually stroll in the shape of a triangle, timing each point sometime in the beginning, middle, and end of the speech. This will help you to stay calm, keep from swaying back and forth like a wheat field (bad!), and prevent you from looking too stiff.
- Make sure to use constant eye contact. It's okay to glance down at your note cards once in a while, but if you're doing it more than once every minute or so, you're not keeping your eyes on you audience enough. If staring creeps you out, try focusing on the back wall to give the illusion of eye contact.
- Use hand gestures. Don't over do it, but when you can, try adding some into your performance. Not only will this help to emphasize your point, but it'll also give you something to do with your hands.
- Crack a joke or two. This will help you to feel more comfortable.
- If you mess up or pronounce a word wrong, don't acknowledge it (unless it's extremely obvious or interferes with the message of the speech, in which case apologize, correct, and move on). Just pretend that you're right and the rest of the world is wrong. 99% of the time people will notice a mistake only after you point it out to them.
- Make sure you're well rehearsed. If you try to wing it, you confidence may be torn to shreds, and you have a better chance of forgetting a part.
Most of all, try your best to have fun with it. If you happen to freeze, take a moment to think, apologize, smile, and continue. You're only human, and rarely will someone get through an entire speech without screwing up once or twice.